Saturday, July 30, 2005

Visiting Yu-Mei Couple

有沒有看過混血兒北鼻哭哭?! 嘿!~ 我這裡有一張, 這個小寶貝連哭的樣子都好可愛!! 這個星期六, Yu-Mei Couple邀請我與男友到他家一起吃晚餐, 這次終於讓我抱到她那可愛的混血兒寶寶了!! 實在是可愛到不行, 圓滾滾的臉頰, 從側面看起來, 還真的很像卡通的蠟筆小新...:P 另外這張, 現在才5個月大的小寶貝, 就會自己拿起奶嘴來吃哩!! 下面這張照片, 看他玩得不亦樂乎的樣子, 聽男友說, 他那兩隻小腳, 還挺有力的... -no.827-

Thursday, July 28, 2005

Daily Life in Holland

在荷蘭的生活型態, 其實比台灣還樸實簡單, 平常就是到超級市場買些生活必需品, 回家下廚開火, 照顧自己的五臟廟, 雖然過著窮苦留學生的簡單生活, 但是卻是很盡情的享受在其中呢!! 右邊圖片上的這家超市, Edah, 距離自己居住的房子大約7分鐘的腳程, 也是距離最近的超市, 所以我幾乎都是在這裡購買我的生活食品與雜貨, 這裡也是一個小型的Shopping Center, Center裡有個小小咖啡店, 其實, 平常也是不會到店裡喝咖啡的, 自從自己在德國買了一個蒸氣式義大利咖啡壺, 我也都在家裡自己煮咖啡喝, 托男友的福, 在這裡住了7個月, 我還是第一次在這個鄰近的Shopping Center裡悠閒的喝咖啡呢!! -no.827-

Saturday, July 23, 2005

Eva's Birthday Party

今天, 是一個荷蘭同學, Eva, 的生日派對, 現在這個時候, 同學們都在忙碌的寫著畢業論文, 所以同學們很難像在以前上課的時候時常聚在一起, Eva邀請到了大部分的同學到她家裡作客, 這一天, 我們大家都很享受在這美麗花園裡的生日派對BBQ聚會. This is my Dutch classmate's, Eva, birthday BBQ party at her parents' beatiful garden house. All of our classmates are busy on the dissertation writing at this period of time, so that we cannot get together as often as before when we were in the class. Eva invited most of classmates to her birthday party. Today, we enjoyed very much her birthday BBQ party at this beautiful garden house. HAPPY BIRTHDAY to EVA!! Eva的家, 有個美麗的花園, 我們同學們在花園裡喝著啤酒, 紅酒, 白酒, 香檳, 與吃著下酒小點心, 開心的聊著天... The happy hour in the garden, classmates were talking each other, drinking beer, and sipping wine. 家裡面還有像溫室般的透明玻璃牆, 那是我們吃著各式各樣的沙拉, 義大利麵, BBQ, Cheese, 咖啡, 餐後蛋糕甜點的來源地. There are full of many kinds of dishes on the table. All of us enjoyed delicious variety of Salad, Italian food, BBQ, Cheese, Coffee, and dessert. 其實, 這一天的早上, 阿那達也從美國飛來荷蘭看我, 所以他就這樣出現在右上角的照片裡... Meanwhile, my boyfriend also visited me from US today. Therefore, he showed up on the pictures... Eva的母親, 是個業餘的畫家, 家中都是她的畫作, 今天我到Eva家, 帶了40朵的玫瑰, 她還把我送給她的玫瑰, 就放在畫作的旁邊, 這樣的畫面, 真的很美!!^_^ I also found Eva's mother is a painter. The beautiful house decorates with her talent paintings. See! The pretty roses, which are the Eva's birthday present from me, look so nice next to the painting. -no.827-

Thursday, July 14, 2005

Fly Back to Amsterdam

不甘願就這樣結束了在台灣放暑假的日子, 發現人都是不滿足的, 10個月前離開台灣的心情雖然不捨, 但是卻充滿期待與勇氣, 準備著面對即將迎來任何一切困難, 這一次, 離開台灣的心情, 卻是有種不甘願的複雜, 似乎荷蘭求學的日子已經是一種規律與無聊的學生生活, 而台灣才是豐富與彩色的快樂日子... 怪怪的人生, 不管怎麼過, 我想, 自己內心的態度, 似乎才是決定性的因素... 這一刻, 我知道我還需要再學習, 學習不管在哪個時刻, 哪個位置, 都能自然輕鬆的面對當下的每分每秒... -no.827-

Saturday, July 09, 2005

Gathering With Friends

這是怎樣的一種感覺?! 當大學時代的死黨們有了活潑可愛的小朋友... 這次回台灣, 一定要跟大學的死黨們見面, 所以我就臨時起義, 跟死黨們聚會, 還要求把她們的全家福都要帶來, 嘿嘿!!~ 這樣也讓我可以一次就跟她們全部都見到面囉!! 我們四個同學, 大學四年都是混在一起的死黨, 回想那時的我們, 是四個年輕熱情的自由靈魂, 從學校畢業後過了幾個年頭, 各自都有自己的職場成就, 還看到她們都找到自己的幸福, 尤其當看到這次聚會中的2個心愛小寶貝, 這種感覺真的好奇妙!! 突然之間, 我也開始期待自己也能跟她們一樣, 組個家庭然後生個天真可愛的小寶貝... 偷偷在心底許個願望, 希望快快達成囉!!..:P -no.827-

Friday, July 08, 2005

Gathering With Classmates

跟大學時代的學弟妹們聚餐, 就有種似乎回到過去的學校生活, 雖然聊著畢業後的工作與生活, 但是卻有種純真與自然的情分蔓延開來, 本來只是拿出相機拍照留念一下, 結果...大家就玩起自拍, 還裝可愛, 裝鬼臉起來... (嘻) 總覺得, 台北是個寂寞的城市, 身邊認識的朋友, 未婚的比結婚的多, 還是單身孑然一人的更是多... 不知道是這個城市出了問題, 還是在城市生活的人本來就有問題? 那, 就把所有的原因都歸咎給"緣分"吧... 但是希望單身的人不會寂寞, 認真生活的每一刻就會讓人鮮活起來... 我真心祝福, 可愛快樂的郁如, 可以遇到一個瞭解妳與真心呵護妳的Mr. Right. 文靜沉穩的明修, 也能找到跟你真心互動的蛋白質女孩. 還有轉型成功的氣質美少婦, 土撥鼠, 已經找到幸福的妳, 一定要幸福唷!! -no.827-

[Seminar] China & India

這一天, 在台北參加了時代基金會的研討會, 探討的題目是:Private Sector Development in China - with a Comparison to India (中國與印度民營企業的躍升) 主講人是黃亞生(Yasheng Huang)教授, 他目前是MIT史隆管理學院教授, 發表了很多有關中國大陸投資, 經濟, 政治, 文化等相關議題的文章. 他的相關著作最著名的是: Selling China: Foreign Direct Investment During the Reform Era 我針對這個演講, 做了一些紀錄, 簡單列於下: * 印度: 硬體設備上遠不如中國, 但是就軟體基礎條件(法律效率, 金融制度等), 在某種關鍵上, 是超越中國; 使中國經濟增長的質量不高, 本土公司不具有核心技術. * 中國的硬體設施, 1990年是印度的8倍; 中國2002年, 電力.交通.通訊.房地產.投資等共有2600億美元 (GDP 20.3%), 而印度只有310億美元. * 印度位於熱帶地理位置, 而熱帶地區唯一發達工商業成功的案例: 新加坡 (相反案例: 如非洲悲劇, 民族構成的複雜性會阻礙經濟發展,經濟長期停滯或負增長的這種“非洲悲劇”,很大原因就是因為非洲的民族複雜性。[新浪網, 2005]) * 分析依地區之經濟發展, 考量因素須包括: 地理位置因素, 人民儲蓄率, 投資佔GDP的比例, 吸引外資程度, 文盲率, 婦女地位, 制度/民族問題, 政策與政治. * ㄧ個國家長期發展, 取決於效率, 而不是宏觀規模(所謂的投資報酬率) * GDP = 消費+投資+淨出口 * 硬體設施 --> 可立竿見影, 得到經濟增長之回報 軟體設施 --> 屬長期投資, 回報慢 * 印度之僱工制度死板, 稅制複雜 * 參考文章: 放手发展民营经济 走富民强国之路, [田纪云, 2002]. * 目前印度最大的國際性民營企業: Infosys, 創始歷史故事值得參考, (公司創立於1980) * 外資與經濟發展的因果關係: 經濟(成長) --> 市場機會(成長) --> 外資進入 * 中國大陸之浙江發展模式: 依考效率, 鼓勵民營企業 * 大陸企業發展借鏡, 可參考下列幾家公司的發展史: 小天鵝洗衣機, 佛山照明; 另外外資與中國企業合資的案例: 雪花牌冰箱與惠而浦品牌的故事 * 印度企業面臨哪些問題: 1.匯率, 利率 2.地域性差異, 進入市場障礙大 3.倒帳風險高, 無保險 4.產業/產品檔次落差大 5.內需市場漸成形 6.管理與文化差異 * 中國大陸需加強軟性建設部份, 而且"誠信"是最重要的經營企業法則 * 目前台灣民營企業在印度經營頗有成績的公司: 友訊 (D-Link), 2004年營業額近11億美元. -no.827-

Sunday, July 03, 2005

Enjoying Happiness with Family

跟家人相聚的日子, 這是每個離鄉遊子最感到快樂的事了, 離家10個月後, 見到父母的喜悅, 還有父母對子女的關懷, 吃著媽嗎特別弄上一桌好吃的海鮮佳餚, 我以完全豁出去的百無禁忌吃喝玩樂, 來回報這樣快樂又幸福的日子...^_^ I am enjoying myself the happiness time with my family. 這個週末, 大哥與大嫂也特地回到老家, 家人團聚的感覺真的很棒, 就算只是簡單的吃個飯, 也是一種很難得時光, 尤其當家中的小孩都大了, 各自忙碌著自己的事業, 現在連過年吃個團圓飯都已經變成是一種奢侈的享受, 所以當我回到台灣, 當然一定要跟家人多聚聚, 大哥大嫂也一起回來與父母親團聚... 歲月不饒人! 時間飛逝!~ 兩個年邁的父母清閒的在家鄉過著退休後的生活, 兩個人彼此互相依賴與照顧, 我在想人的一生也不過如此, 好好珍惜當下的幸福, 讓這一刻的快樂延續... -no.827-

Saturday, July 02, 2005

Yes!! I Love You.

有時候, 覺得, 要認識一個人真的很難, 曾經, 有個認識將近10年的親密愛人, 說變就變了! 然後, 分手後的傷心, 只能一個人默默承受, 任何任何的一切, 就這樣...灰.飛.煙.滅. 後來, 也體會到了, 分手比相愛更難... 紛紛擾擾的在人世間跌跌撞撞走了一大段路, 才驚覺, 人常說沒有道理的愛情, 其實還是有道理的, 我相信, Love is simple and pure. Love is not a game. Everyone cannot gain anything in Love, except happiness. 看到貓玲玲說, 愛情全部的道理: 「當你真心愛一個人的時候,你會捨不得他受任何委屈。」 這一刻, 我一直不斷的在心中重複這樣的字句... 是的, 我愛你, 愛你到不愛我為止... -no.827- 圖片說明: 這是一家位於內湖的Cafe Shop - 風車館, 門外還有一個大風車, 儼然就像個荷蘭的風景重現眼底.

Friday, July 01, 2005

How To Live With An Idiot

在Taipei 101逛著, 來到了四樓的Page One書店, 據說這家書店是台灣中英文書最多的書店, 甚至與美國英國等地會同步出著熱門暢銷書, 藏書35萬冊, 有時候會有特價的英文書, 價格與歐美會相差很多, 所以, 我也來瞧瞧走走. PAGE ONE Bookstore, TAIPEI 101, 4FL-1, No. 45, Shi-Fu Road (幸福路? ^_^), 110, Taipei, Taiwan. Tel: 886-2-8101-8282 Fax: 886-2-8101-8283 在這書店, 我買了兩本原文書, 價錢也不會貴, the five people you meet in heaven (NT$235), 另外一本, The Da Vinci Code (NT$268). 後來在書架上看到這本書吸引了我的目光, How To Live With An Idiot: Clueless Creatures And The People Who Love Them 瀏覽了書中的文字, 覺得這是一本很有趣的書, 這本書的作者, 之前也出了一本很暢銷的書, How to work for an Idiot. 我發現這本書的作者, 面對生活有他自己獨到的一面, 不管遇到再困難的人事物, 他都能輕鬆地用他幽默的一面來化解這人生的轉折, 這除了需要有高度的人品修養之外, 還更要有高度的智慧與方法來處理這人生的一切, 為了就是希望能有個成功與圓滿的人生, 這不就是我們積極追尋而希望達成的人生目標嗎? 這本書教給了我們方法, 在人生過程中多練習這些方法, 希望我也能培養出這作者的幽默風趣, 擁有智慧而談笑自若的度過這快樂而且成功的一生...(當然!~ 更希望是同時擁有我的ㄚ娜答一起幸福的度過這快樂的一生...^_^) -no.827- Editorial Reviews Book Description Earlier this year, the publication of Dr. Hoover's How to Work for an Idiot: Survive and Thrive Without Killing Your Boss proved what we all suspected-there are a lot of idiots out there...and you're probably working for one. But are idiots confined to the workplace? Ultimate success in living happily with an idiot-whether spouse, child, other relative or roommate-depends upon your willingness to search out and embrace your own inner idiot. We all have one. Some just pop out more often than others do. By learning the art of setting realistic expectations, resentments will diminish and relationships can be rekindled based on strengths rather than continuing to whither on weaknesses. This book offers practical, useful advice for all of us who have to deal with the many true idiots in our lives, but helps us laugh at them, too. Completed information about this book: Click Here.

Thursday, June 30, 2005

Miramar Entertainment Park

Honestly, Taipei is one of really colorful and entertainment cities in the world. I can go for shopping in many fancy department stores. Newly, there is a department store with a big skyscaper wheel, its named Miramar (美麗華), in Taipei. I went there for killing time when I am enjoying my vacation in Taipei. I found an Astro Boy at the basement which is in front of an food shop. Of coures that I have to take a picture with this cartoon character which is one of my favorite animated comics. -no.827- about Astro Boy... (原子小金剛) Astroboy was called Tetsuwan Atom in Japan. The black and white series was created, animated and produced by Osamu Tezuka (1928-1989) through his own company named Mushi Productions. Tezuka, like his father, was a qualified doctor of medicine but was more interested in drawing. Astroboy was a successful comic strip in Japan in the 1950's. It was released in Japan between 1963 and 1966 and was shown on Melbourne TV in April 1966 at 5:30pm Sunday's on channel 0. The tv week described it as "Cartoon adventure series about a youngster in the 21st century." It was the first animated TV series to be produced in Japan, and after becoming a worldwide hit, Japanese cartoons began to flood the market with the release of other successful series' such as Gigantor, 8th man and Prince Planet. The large oval eyes became the standard for most other Japanese cartoons. A total of 193 episodes were produced, but only 104 of them were redubbed and shown on TV outside Japan. Data source: http://www.absoluteanime.com/astro_boy/ A New Beginning... To celebrate Astroboy's Birthday (7th April, 2003), "AstroBoy's Homepage!" has re-launched as AstroBoy Online. We have a new look, new features and a new home, so come check us out at www.astroboy-online.com (More Infomation about Astro Boy...) 1. http://astroboy.jp/c/009/movie/index.html 2. http://www.astro-boy.net/ 3. http://www.sonypictures.com/tv/kids/astroboy/ 4. Astro Boy from Wikipedia

Tuesday, June 28, 2005

Vacation in Taipei

It is always so great sharing easy time with a couple of friends, especially in Taiwan!! This afternoon, my friend and I went to a pub "Brown Sugar" having a tea and enjoying my vacation time in Taiwan. Afterward, we went to the "Taipei 101" building, which is the highest building in southeast Asia, for looking around the shops. Meanwhile, I was surveying the information about the laptops. I think that the professional computer buyer should buy the computer in Taiwan!! (I am so proud of Taiwan!! ^_^) Regarding the "Taipei 101" building, which is the one of the Top.10 tallest buildings in the world. Construction Dates Started: 1999 Finished: 2004 Floor Count: 101 Basement Floors: 5 Floor Area: 412,500 m² Elevator Count: 61 Data source: SkyscraperPage.com -no.827- Picture: Here is the inside square of "Taipei 101" building.

Saturday, June 25, 2005

BIG JET LAG

在這幾天內, 飛了三分之二個地球, 停留美國底特律10天後, 飛到荷蘭停留2天, 再飛台灣渡假20天, 遭遇前所未有的時差折磨... 亂了正常的生理節奏與嚴重的疲乏煩燥感... -no.827-

Friday, June 24, 2005

Flying Home

有10個月沒有回台灣了, 安排了一段時間回家看看久違的家人與朋友, 懷著滿足又愉悅的心情飛越歐亞大陸, 這回鄉之旅, 還遇到了前外交部長, 一路上閒聊打發機上無聊的時間, 讓我對這趟頭等艙回鄉旅程, 更增添了一段難忘的回憶... 圖片說明: (大)貴賓級的頭等艙禮遇, 一上飛機就有機員馬上奉上飲料與點心, 我點了一杯蘋果汁, 就立刻來照下這頭等艙的高級裝備... (小) 1. 我還很厚臉皮的要求空中小姐幫我拍一張"很觀光客的到此一遊照"囉!!~ ^_^ 2. 這是小點心唷!! 有鮭魚子, 生魚片, 法式餅乾沙拉,...再點一杯卡魯哇香甜咖啡酒... 3. 這才是餐前的開胃菜 - 精緻法式鴨肝醬佐水果拼盤. 4. 庭園生菜沙拉 + 黃瓜薄荷醬 5. 主菜 - 醬燒鱸魚排 6. 精選起士及新鮮水果 7. 咖啡 在泰國曼谷暫停, 還跟著前外交部長到華航的Lounge bar貴賓休息室停留了2個小時, 再回到機上繼續享受這宇宙超級無敵享受的頭等艙回鄉之旅...*\^.^/* 圖片說明: (左)機上的早餐還有很中式的清粥小菜唷!! (右)在曼谷飛往台北的途中, 享受的機上午餐, 有精緻美國干貝鮭魚盅, 怡神庭園沙拉佐泰式油醋醬, 主餐是香嫩義大利甜酒醬磨菇牛排, 甜點是水果香草蛋糕與綜合雪酪冰... -no.827-

Thursday, June 23, 2005

Summer Time in Europe

The weather is quite sunny and bright during the summer time in Europe. It is not too hot so that you could fully enjoying the easy time at a bar with beers. Therefore, a couple of classmates and I went to a nice little bar and enjoyed the easy summer time in Utrecht. :: The Indonesian, Wily, is a very nice and smart person who likes to help people. :: The Japanese boy, Sumio, is a very cute and enjoying travelling life people I have never met. :: The Japanese girl, Chieko, is a very polite and pleasant girl to good to get along. :: The Taiwanese girl, Beryl, is a very goal oriented and reality practical people who with a excellent balanced life. :: The Taiwanese boy, Clint, is a very clever and intellectual sunny boy with full of enthusiastic mind. It is so wonderful to be with a couple of friends talking and drinking together. Share moments, share life!! -no.827- PS: The picture, (main) from left to right, Wily, Sumio, Chieko, Beryl, and Clint.

Wednesday, June 22, 2005

Magic of Love

問世間, 情是何物, Where's love on this secular world? 直教生死相許? Lasting live or dead. 天南地北雙飛客, Wherever going, always together Like the migrating birds. 老翅幾回寒暑! Ignoring times Ignoring age. 歡樂趣, 離別苦, Be happy together Be wail upon separate 就中更有癡兒女. Not obsession, but promise 君應有物: Be kindred spirits 渺萬里層雲, Even miles apart 千山暮雪, By mountains, or snow. But 隻影向誰去! Now, just a lone wolf Whom can I speak to? -no.827- 醉過才知酒濃, 愛過方知情重。 圖片說明: 因為學校有個會議, 得回荷蘭了!... 轉機孟菲市, 候機時的牽掛與想念...

Tuesday, June 21, 2005

The Henry Ford Museum

在底特律, 有個著名的亨利福特博物館, 館藏美國人生活歷史的蛻變, 可以看到從30年代到90年代的美國人的廚房, 浴室, 家務整理, 家具擺設, 與生活型態等的轉變紀錄, 包含靜態與動態的展示, 光是一個展覽館就讓人看到目不暇給了... 除此之外, 館內的豐富收藏從小體積的古老照相機, 各種大小型的農業時代種植植物的農業機械與器具, 上百輛的經典汽車, 運煤火車與載客火車, 到天空飛的飛機都有展示... 算是值得一看的博物館!! 透過這個館藏的收藏品, 可以在一天之內大致上了解美國人的生活歷史經驗, 佈過如果要仔細的參觀這個博物館, 可能需要超過1天以上的時間才能將館內的收藏品都看完呢!! 有興趣的話, 可以參考這個網址: http://www.thehenryford.org/ The Henry Ford is an independent, non-profit, educational institution not affiliated with the Ford Motor Company or the Ford Foundation. The Henry Ford is an AAM accredited institution. The Henry Ford is located in Dearborn, Michigan on the corner of Village Road and Oakwood Boulevard, just west of the Southfield Freeway (M-39) and south of Michigan Avenue (US-12). -no.827-

Monday, June 20, 2005

Partner

Partner 看了電影Mr. & Mrs. Smith, 這是描述一對夫妻在一起生活了幾年, 彼此卻不知道對方都是身懷絕技的冷面殺手, 雖然彼此因為愛意結合, 但是卻因為仍有某種未知層面的隔閡存在, 所以兩個人的情感因此觸礁陷入僵局, 然而, 就在某次執行任務失敗後, 發現彼此的真正身分, 而電影在這個片刻進入最耐人尋味的階段, 雙方的諜對諜, 與棋逢敵手的箇中滋味, 愛與不愛的情感交錯, 最後竟然發現, 兩個人之間的真情相對與早已培養出了合作無間的默契. 兩個人一個眼神, 一個暗語, 就能衝破重重的難關, 雖然到最後的槍戰畫面有點過於超現實, 可以發現那是因為滿足電影劇情效果與戲劇張力的誇飾法, 但是這卻給了我一些感想, 體會到, 也深深的認同夫妻之間的關係, 應該像是兩個合作無間的夥伴關係. 夫妻的關係裡, 沒有誰快誰慢, 誰對誰錯, 誰強誰弱, 也沒有誰主動誰被動的問題, 兩個人會自然的找到一個平衡點, 雙方都盡其在我的做自己, 然而卻又能與對方搭配互動得很完美. 兩個人的相處, 真的是一門藝術呢!! 有人說, 就像是跳一支雙人舞曲, 跳舞的很多片刻, 沒有實際上的言語, 但也許用一些眼神與肢體語言的交流, 卻能有默契的可以隨著旋律翩翩悠然起舞, 他暗示性的牽起她的右手, 而她也會意的隨著旋轉; 她前進, 他後退;... 有時候不小心踩到了對方的腳尖, 也許痛, 但是卻能適時的再度調整雙方的腳步, 繼續欣然滑著步, 然後歡喜的享受在不間斷的美妙旋律裏... 人生是延續不斷的, 就像是舞者隨著起舞的音符, 如果期望跳著步伐的美妙, 也需要音符的伴隨演奏; 我們都需要練習與學習才能將舞步與優美的旋律相隨… 以前有句廣告詞說: “我是當了爸爸之後, 才開始學習如何做爸爸的...” 人生有很多需要扮演的角色, 我相信, 有一天, 我也要真正的當了媽媽之後, 才知道開始學習如何做媽媽的... 我知道, 我也還在不斷的學習, 學著溝通的語言, 學著諒解, 學著飛越人生的考驗… 那是多麼的難得, 能夠遇到一個特別的Partner, 願意陪伴著一同感受一切人生的美好與酸苦, 我突然領悟, 當懂得如何欣賞與珍惜對方的時候, 兩個人的世界是多麼的美麗. 就理性的來說, 兩個人的相處, open and honest communication很重要, 也因為這樣, 如果同時更能夠擁有positive thought and open mind來思考並且寬容接受兩個人的相異點, 兩個人的世界又變得更加的寬廣了. 其實, 生活是平凡的, 但是奇妙的人生卻可以在平凡中過著充實又幸福的生活, 就完全看自己想怎麼過這一場不能回頭的人生. 我希望, 我們都能以尊重, 溝通, 還有考慮對方立場的感同身受態度來呵護心愛的人, 我相信那將不會有fight, 而是一種nonstop understanding reciprocation... -no.827- 推薦閱讀: Meeting Your Match <book in Amazon> Finding true love is not a matter of trial and error. It is the result of being true to oneself. Recently, I am reading this book. Summarized what is PERFECT PARTNERS in following... 1. Both partners know they belong together. 2. The relationship is synergistic. 3. Both partners think the other is the greatest person they could have ever chosen, just the way he or she is. 4. Their relationship is delightful to both parties and gets better with time and experience. 5. Both feel very safe, nourished, at-home, and natural. 6. They can be themselves; no pretense is necessary. 7. Each is respectful of the other. 8. The relationship is OK all the time, even in disagreements. 9. Each individual is totally satisfied with the other; there is no desire to look around anymore. 10. No compromises are required. 11. No "working on the relationship" is required. 12. They treat each other like sweethearts. 13. When they are in each other's arms, it is like no other relationship has ever been. 14. They really look forward to being with one another. 15. Both desire open and honest communication.

Sunday, June 19, 2005

The Way I See It

The Way I See It # 30 The secret of attraction is to love yourself. Attractive people judge neither themselves nor others. They are open to gestures of love. They think about love, and express their love in every action. They know that love is not a mere sentiment, but the ultimate truth at the heart of the universe. -- Deepak Chopra Author/ philosopher www.starbucks.com/wayiseeit 習慣每天都要來一杯咖啡, 這樣已經有好幾年了... 到了美洲大陸一定也要來杯Starbucks的焦糖瑪奇朵囉!!~ 那甜甜的滋味, 就像是幸福融化在嘴裡的感覺, 恰如其分的咖啡香氣, 可以沉浸自己的靈魂自由地在天堂飛翔... ㄚ娜答幫我點了一杯大杯的焦糖瑪奇朵, 我享受著這樣簡單的幸福, 讓那甜蜜蜜的滋味停留在口中的感覺, 可以再久一點...再多一點... 手中握著溫熱的咖啡, 我突然發現這杯子上有著動人的哲學詩句, --- The Way I See It --- 喝完了咖啡, 竟讓我捨不得丟掉這杯子, 所以我記下了這杯子上的句子, 也同時記下這大杯焦糖瑪奇朵與ㄚ娜答之間的奇妙幸福滋味... -no.827-

Friday, June 10, 2005

Flying Toward Sunshine


Ariel in the forest Posted by Hello 我猜想, 這一趟8小時35分鐘的飛行, 將是我這一生中最漫長的一場等待... 不知道在三萬六千英呎的高空中持續思念, 是怎樣的一種感覺? 詩人節到了, 一定要給他詩情畫意一下, 即將飛離荷蘭去渡假囉... (等我回來再跟大家揭曉我去了哪裡? ^_^) -no.827- 照片說明: 有個學妹說這張照片的Ariel看起來好一副徐志摩文藝美少女的姿態(哈) 有時候,風太靜,藏不住,掛念心情~啦啦啦~ 我多麼羨慕你~~
 
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